About Stealing Energy
This "channelled information" came about after several clients mentioned that they experienced severe drops in energy around certain co-workers or family members. Marelon attended an Abraham-Hicks "Art of Allowing" workshop in June 2004 and was intrigued to hear Esther Hicks say that anyone could tune in to the Abraham energy. Marelon had clearly "felt" Abraham in her energy field when she was picked to asked questions at the workshop, so she decided to see what would happen if she "tuned in" to that energy again and asked for information:
What is going on is that as soon as you pay attention to the otherís state, you become a vibrational match to that personís state. The energy loss you experience is not real in the sense that energy passes from you to the other, what happens is a kind of agreement that one will feel stronger and one will feel weaker as a result of the exchange or the interaction. This kind of agreement happens at a level beyond this physical world - and is agreed to for the purposes of spirit, for the purpose of an opportunity to learn something.
It is all about learning how you create what you create. When you suffer what is perceived to be an energy loss, there is created an opportunity to learn what happens when you lower your vibrations every time you have negative feelings about what someone else is doing or experiencing.
Consider: when another is angry with you and you donít care, you do not suffer any energy loss. It is only when you care for some reason, perhaps because you want that personís good opinion, or you want that person to love you, or you want that person to support your view of yourself as a fine individual - that is when you suffer the feeling of energy lost.
In fact what has happened is that you disconnected from Source and you feel that disconnection as a loss of energy. In your fear that your purpose or self-image will not be honoured, you disconnected from Source. In the moment of disconnection, as you focused upon the other and their vibration, you went from your higher vibration to their lower vibration and you experienced that as a loss of energy.
THAT IS FINE AS FAR AS IT GOES, BUT THEN IF NO ENERGY IS REALLY LOST WHY DOES THE OTHER PERSON FEEL AN ENERGY INCREASE? IíVE BEEN ON THE WINNING SIDE AND FELT POWERFUL - WHAT IS THAT ALL ABOUT?
This is about feeling clear and true to your purpose in the moment. Anger and intimidation is not a way we would recommend to get this feeling, and as you are aware, it fades rather quickly. If one has only this method to get this feeling, they must cause many more arguments in order to win again and get the feeling back.
We would suggest it is far more useful and positive to be clear and true to a positive purpose - you will get the same feeling of power and of riding a wave of powerful, positive emotion. When the emotion is high, the clarity is crystal clear, the purpose is absolute in the moment, then the power appears like a wave.
As with the Law of Attraction, the Universe does not differentiate between a so-called positive purpose and a so-called negative purpose - the power and energy increase with the emotion, the clarity of purpose and the clarity of intent.
SO EVEN IF SOMEONE ELSE HAS THE INTENT OF STEALING ENERGY FROM US, THEY CANNOT DO IT IN REALITY?
Not in our reality, to be sure! We would suggest that you do not give energy to this belief in your reality, either, or you will be subject to it! No-one can steal your energy unless you agree to it, but many of you do agree to it! It is true they do not actually strip you of your energy - but if it feels like it to you, it will feel awful to you.
You will not attract energy-stealers into your experience unless you are in vibrational harmony with them, at least some of the time you have to be in vibrational harmony with them. You cannot attract that which you are not in vibrational harmony with! This means you believe, as they do, that there is not enough energy to go around or that there is some reason that you do not have enough energy and you must steal it from each other!
As soon as you accept that when you are connected to Source, you are connected to unlimited, unceasing energy, you will cease to attract energy stealers. If they are in your life in the form of family, they will not pull their energy-stealing games on you - as long as you do not get upset when they do pull their energy-stealing games on other members of your family! If you do get upset, you will be dragged back into the struggle.
Watch your own vibration and never mind what others are doing! They are doing what they are doing and they will do it regardless of what you want. If you pay attention to them you only become a vibrational match for them. If you pay attention to raising your own vibration, they will treat you quite differently. You will, in fact, pull out the best from them rather than the worst.
SO WHEN I FEEL A BIG DROP IN ENERGY AS A RESULT OF AN INTERACTION WITH SOMEONE ELSE, IT IS BECAUSE I HAVE NOTICED THEIR LOWER VIBRATION AND I HAVE PUSHED AGAINST IT FOR SOME REASON.
Yes, you have defended yourself or disagreed or whatever - it makes no difference - any way you engage with their vibration causes you to become a vibrational match. YOU CANNOT INTERACT WITH A LOWER VIBRATION AND NOT BE DRAGGED DOWN TO ITS LEVEL.
There is the expression that one who lies down with dogs can expect to get up with fleas and this meaning is clear to us. ANY reaction that you have to an interaction begins to bring you into vibrational match with that interaction. You cannot react to it without being caught up in it. This is why we teach loved ones and parents to stop reacting to behaviours they donít like - because no matter what their reaction is, the very fact of the reaction is bringing them into vibrational harmony with that which they do not want. They march down a pathway which cannot bring them anywhere but exactly where they do not wish to be!
We teach that it is possible to choose a different pathway, to refuse to engage by reacting to the behaviour, and to instead choose the pathway of firmly holding the vision of what you do want. The stronger and clearer your vision is, the sooner will the offending person cease to annoy you and begin to react to your higher vibrations.
Healers dominate the vibrations in an interaction. They learn how to do it in the face of diseases that your society considers terrible, devastating, even fatal. The best healers hold their vision of perfect health for the client and they do it knowing that the client is trapped in a vision of disease. Parents and partners can learn how to do the same thing: to hold their vision of what they REALLY, REALLY want even in the face of extremely annoying or provocative behaviour from children or partners. This, indeed, is reaching for the level of Mastery.
MASTERY OF THE LAW OF ATTRACTION?
You cannot master the Law of Attraction, it is what it is. You master yourself and what you think about and what you feel and by so doing you bring yourself into vibrational harmony with what you want. You align yourself with it. The Law of Attraction operates whether you are conscious of it or not. But when you master yourself, you align yourself with what you want and the Law of Attraction brings it to you. It might be said that you master your use of The Law of Attraction.
Shortly after channelling this information, Marelon experienced an energy loss during an upsetting disagreement. As soon as she felt the exhaustion set in, she remembered this information and realized that if she had caused the problem by disconnecting from Source, she could choose to reconnect immediately. It took determination to step aside from her emotions over the disagreement, but she did so and focused on breathing and reconnecting to Source. Within minutes the exhaustion was gone and her energy was back to normal. Copyright Marelon Bjorkaes 2006